Okay, having just read an excellent dispute of this….Well put….
Of course, there are subsets and different mindsets of binge eaters. I have no clue what it’s like to have been overweight since early on, and be fighting a lifelong weight issue and of course, perhaps the worst of it, the bullying and horrible weight bias from I mean like day one that goes along with being the least bit chubby or accused of having even one part of you that’s even imagined as chubby.
This is another world and it’s a world I’ve stepped into very briefly in my adult life. Let’s say I tested the waters, then quickly yanked my big toe out as if the pool was filled with sharks. I was fucking terrified.
Oh yeah, I do remember struggling with my weight, begging my doctor to take me off the darned pill that had gotten me to that point. In other words, this is a trait that never really happened to me except by artificially-induced means, I’m talking true extremes. Like you had to force me into that mold.
Okay, so if a person is of that mold, then, is it a different disorder than if they are my type that is the restrictive type, that started their disorder because of a diet?
See, so many people I know of with ED started with a diet, maybe schemed to get skinny, then developed further bad habits such as binge eating cuz their bodies were so starved. Then, say, they panicked, saying, WTF? what’s this? and purged out of terror for what they had done. Then maybe they looked up “laxatives” online and said, “hmm, maybe this will work,” and decided to go that route. Or whatever. By then, the whole thing is incredibly unstoppable.
Okay, what of this diet…why go on a diet to begin with? Low self esteem? I mean, most of us weren’t even fat to begin with, right? Most of gained “the freshman 10” maybe, or something very, very negligible and were still within range and could very well have exercised it off during summer break instead of going on that 300 calories a day crash diet we went on.
Agreeably, this is not the same as the pattern of the person who has been overweight since childhood. I am wondering to what extent the dining commons, the Freshman Ten, or any of this…none of this means the same to the entering freshman who comes in say, already clinically obese and most likely the instant target of bullying. Or maybe not. You hear about the stereotypes. The “fat kid” who is the “life of the party.” Or, the “fat kid” who is, conversely, the “depressed loner.” Either may be a secret binge eater. Or maybe the kid never does have what we now will know, officially, as this painful disorder, Binge Eating Disorder, but the kid overeats at many, many meals, enough to sustain a larger body than he or she should have.
And folks, are we ever, ever going to find out? For freaking years and years and years? Sure, the presentation is that this is the fat kid. Sure, the other young college folk assume maybe the kid “likes” to eat. They dismiss this. No one wants to talk about it and it ends up an uncomfortable subject. Like, forever. This is a painful path to walk on. Even doctors don’t tread this ground.
Well, folks, they should. And now, they will. Binge eating is real and it’s serious. Just as serious for someone overweight as it is for me who has anorexia with binge eating and does not and is unable to throw up, or someone with anorexia who does throw up, which is the one written up somewhere, the “binge-purge” type. Do we have to talk about these stereotypes even?
Binge eating is serious for anyone who does binge eating and should be treated seriously, as seriously as is the behavior.
Binge eating itself causes massive damage in our society and of course to each and every individual sufferer.
And yes, you can indeed die directly from the act of binge eating alone.
Never mind the suicides, car accidents, financial ruin, wrecked marriages, night after night of lost sleep, shattered sex lives, multitude of health concerns, legal issues, and troubled children.
Yep. I’d say BED is right up there with severe alcoholism.
I’ll throw homelessness in there, too.
And yes, you CAN smell it on a person. Not all the time, but some of the time. Try a whiff of donuts or chocolate or the smell of dangerously high blood sugar on a person’s breath. Or the scary drop in blood sugar some folks experience afterward.
I’m going to put out a poll and I hope it posts related to binge eating. I believe these polls are anonymous. Or I hope so. I myself that I know of will be unable to track folks who answer. (Don’t panic yet…no obligation to answer but it will help change the world…well, maybe. I hope in my own little delusion of grandeur over here that everything I do makes its footprint on the world. Well, everything we do, sorry, does a carbon footprint thing, they say, right?)
If you don’t want to answer the poll, and I’ll bet most of you won’t, or if you have never or generally don’t engage in binge eating, then just think about the questions and what your answers are or what someone else’s answers might be. And think about tomorrow. Goodnight.
Okay, see ya later, done with polls…I hope, again, I did this right. Best of luck answering them.